Oh God!!! Disaster….

    No friends….I am not talking about some natural calamity. Its just the cry of a girl who has stepped out of her door, locked her house in a hurry and forgotten to apply her lip balm… ;)

Its quite natural for a girl to think about the way she looks when she has to step out in public, even if it is towards the parking lot below her apartment. That is generally the way she is brought up or that is the way a girl generally behaves after she returns from an outing with her friends.

    The other day, I was with my friends out shopping at a mall when I overheard two girls talking about Angelina Jolie’s pout!! It seems the pout makes her a Beauty Icon…I am still confused, does it??

     I should say nowadays, boys too take extra care in maintaining their look when they step out of their respective houses. The only difference is that boys pay attention to this factor only when they are sure about meeting or seeing girls in their way.

   One more instance that happened recently was when I was about to leave from my home, my neighbor’s six year old daughter was getting out of her house as well to attend her tuitions. Her mother was getting the door locked so that she could drop the little girl for classes, and that was when all of a sudden the little one realized that she had not applied her lip balm. I stopped for a second to know what the little thing would do next. No points for guessing….she made her mother open the lock, unlatched the door, rushed inside, applied some and was finally ready. She gave me a wide smile and her lips sparkled. At that time, I realized the impact of  how much advertisements, movies ,teleserials and last but not the least mothers can create on their kids.

    I really hope in the next few years a scene like this won’t be created wherein the husband calls up 911,and when those guys arrive, the husband would have to say ‘Sorry officers, I’ve just never seen my wife without makeup before.’

Home is where the heart is!!!

    My recent trip to my native- Kerala has been one of the most memorable times of my life. Basically, it had been an unexpected trip. Being an emotional person made me sentimental at the station, after all I was going to be traveling with my elder brother this time and our parents weren’t going to accompany us. (It gave me a sense of responsibility)

   Brother and I were going to stay at my maternal aunt’s place for a few days. I would have loved to live in my mother’s ancestral home, but then since I didn’t prefer bats and other kind of birds to accompany me, I dropped the idea of living there. The ancestral home is kind of dilapidated now since no one has been living there for a few years.

  As soon as the train entered Kerala, I saw myself leaning towards the metallic grills of the train to watch the coconut trees waving their pinnate leaves as though welcoming me.  As soon as we reached the station, saw my cousin and aunt waiting for us. As we proceeded to their place, Granny opened the door for us.

  One of the things I hate about the people staying in Kerala or I would rather say villages, is that they have got a huge heart. They live with different kind of insects harmoniously. They have mastered the habit of ignoring creatures that crawl around them. And that one potential is something that I got to master yet. That reminds me of the scary spider that used to peep at me from behind the mirror every time I used to brush my teeth. At that time, a lot many questions would pop up in my mind like whether the spider has an ability to fly, or whether spiders are in general poisonous arachnids class(Something that I have never even contemplated when I had to in the ninth grade)!! 

                                           (This was the same li'l rascal who scared me :) )

   Wall Lizards were an extremely common sight. Its like they are a part of every family there. By the way, for the first time I saw a frog that could jump n cling to the walls…I still recall myself running around my aunt’s place with a magazine in hand just in case the creature leapt towards me!!!

  While at native, I didn’t want to waste a single second of my time. One night my brother , younger cousin and me went to the river bank in the moonlight n sat on the steps that lead towards the river. It felt real nice. A feeling that I would never get anywhere else.

The worst part of being there was the net connectivity. For a cyber cafe, I would have had to go kilometers!! Accessed my networking sites through my cousin’s cellphone and used up all his balance!! ;)

   After a few days of staying there, started missing parents. I wanted to get back soon. Got tickets after a little bit of struggle. Finally reached home. I had a great sense of relief  after getting back. After all as the idiom goes “Home is where the heart is”…is so so true. J

Eternity...

     No human being is immortal!! I wish I could take over God’s role in giving a longer lifeline to people whom I love the most! I tried thinking over the criteria by which God must be deciding  about how long a person should exist on Earth but could not conclude with any solid reason, though I came up with a few possibilities. But for those possibilities to be true, I would have to believe in “Karma”.

      As Indians, in almost every family we have had some elder person who would take out some time to tell us the stories from the great epics like The Mahabharata and The Ramayana. So as a matter of fact, there was a time when we did believe in reincarnation or “Punarjanma”. Its only later that we actually get our senses and ponder whether there is really something like rebirth. Millions don’t bother about this subject while the remaining don’t have the time and patience to contemplate on such issues. But I have always been fascinated by the two Indian epics, with The Mahabharata being my all time favorite. Inspite  of being given a boon as “Iccha-Marani” by his father, even the great Bheeshma Pitamaha could not live on Earth forever. As kids, my brother and I were given examples of how a person was rewarded with punishment for the sins he had committed in his life. If he luckily escaped the punishment from his present birth, then definitely it would have been waiting in his next birth..(but mind you, the punishment was certain)!!

      I had been to the temple today for a small ritual that was to be held in memory of my maternal uncle who passed away back in 2001. Looking at the rituals being done by the pujaris in the temple, I really wondered whether it would really be useful for the person whom we had been doing this for!! After all each person has their own beliefs.. The 1 hour 15 minutes that we(my cousin, aunt, mother n me) waited in the temple brought back all the old golden memories that I have had with uncle. I just couldn’t stop thinking about him. There was a sense of freedom, a sense of attachment whenever uncle had been around. They say God takes away those whom he likes the most.

 

     There is a small fireplace within the temple and the place where we stood was almost covered in white smoke. All of a sudden I got a reason which I could tell anyone if they asked me why was I crying!!

Local train...

     I don’t get a chance to travel much by the local trains in Pune. Inspite of the rush in locals, I have always enjoyed my short journeys thoroughly. The last time I traveled by a local had been when I had to go to the University of Pune to submit the application for my degree certificate. I have never traveled without the company of my friends in a local train and I have always been thankful that I have never had to travel alone. The part wherein I have to enter the local makes me go dumb. The crowd or I would rather say the sea of people who want to enter the compartment makes me feel that there should be locals coming every 5 minutes. Since my friends are used to getting in and out of it despite the rush, I have always been able to board and exit at the correct stations. Because they are the ones who push me out of the bogie and pull me in at the perfect time.

     

     So I was talking about my latest “yatra” in a local train. We had booked return tickets in the morning itself while boarding the local sensing that we may not have much of time to get into the long queue at some other station. As expected we reached Shivajinagar station just minutes before the local was about to arrive. I suppose each local has two ladies compartments- one somewhere at the centre and the other at the end of the train. Wherever it is, there is a small board that hangs at the platform indicating the position of the ladies compartment..;)

    As soon as the train arrived at the platform, I felt like all the ladies in the world wanted to board the same compartment which I had been looking forward to get into. Somehow I got pushed into the compartment by an external thrust and I reached the other end of the door. By that time, even my friends reached near me. I wouldn’t mind standing at the door for a long time. I love looking outside the moving train. The train started moving slowly , then increased its pace within seconds. Many of the ladies got a seat while many had to stand holding onto the handles fixed onto the railings above their heads. I clutched the handle of the door firmly though I was trying to seem cool by letting go of the handle for a few seconds. As the train approached the next station in five minutes, another mini wave entered our compartment. A lady got into our bogie with her wailing son. The little fellow was crying because he had been pushed into the bogie the same way I used to be pushed. The only difference between both of us that time was that I was ready for the push but he was not!! His mother tried to calm him down but the poor boy was crying as loudly as possible!! Finally the lady bought him some chips from a lady hawker in the compartment and then he was calmly enjoying his packet of chips.

    There is hardly any space for people to move around in the bogie and a lady squatted down right in the middle making it all the more difficult and irritating for people who wished to get down. There began another verbal war which consisted of a few abuses too. Both were not in a position to give up. The two ladies quarreled for some time while the rest of the people including me enjoyed watching the scene.

   After around 6-7 stations, we had to get down at Akurdi. My friends and me tried to move from one door to the other and finally succeeded. The train halted for around 10-15 seconds and my heels touched the platform somehow. The train began to move forward and we started moving towards the exit of the station when suddenly a lady started screaming and calling out some name which we didn’t hear. As soon as we hear something like this, our thoughts start racing and atleast my thoughts go towards the extremes. Many people started shouting together and  finally made the local halt once more. I thought that the lady’s child had slipped and fallen in between the platform and the train but thankfully nothing of that sort had happened. The lady had exited from the compartment but the child could not get down on time and since the train had already started moving, the woman was running behind the people made the local stop and finally the kid was reunited with its mother.

   My bike had been parked at the station and the 7 minute drive I have to take from the station to reach my home was filled with thoughts and the way that I had to narrate the whole thing to my parents.